BEING JUDGEMENTAL

BEING JUDGEMENTAL

  He/She is so old-fashioned!!!! 

He/She is a bookworm!!!!! Idiot!!!!

See that stupid!!! Such a stupid he/she is!!!!!

There comes the stupid zombie!!!!

Such an arrogant person!!!!!!!

How can someone be his/her friend!!!!! He/she is such a pain!!!! My goodness!!!!

What a joker he/she is!!!! Always smiling like an idiot!!!!!!! 

See that man/woman,he/she is so fat!!!!

These are just some comments rather we can negative comments that generally we form about someone whom many a times we even don't know properly.This kind of attitude is something which is called as being judgemental.

We all often come across many comments that are either passed on us or on someone else.Many a times or it is better to say that maximum of the times those comments or we can say remarks are negative in nature.The reason is that sometimes we people do behave like someone who is judgemental.

We meet or we can say come across so many people in our lives and they are a part of our journey of life.Some become our friends,some just are our acquaintances,some we just know somehow,some people have existence in our professional life,some we like,some we hate,some we love beyond limits,some we forget,some remain in our memories forever.

Often or we can say maximum times we remain unaware about the journey of the person we know.We just remain aware of all those things about that person which he/she wants us to know.But there so many people out there who have an attitude of often forming opinions about someone whom they hardly know.We people maximum of the times believe in what our eyes see and what our ears hear but many a times the actual reality is something way different from what we have seen and have heard about someone.

I feel that if we don't like someone for any reason we should make sure that we maintain distance from that very person rather than forming opinions.

If there is someone whom we don't like and that very person don't have any importance in our lives then it is way better that we should not waste our precious time thinking and forming opinions about him/her.
It's fine if we don't like a person for any reason but being judgemental is not a positive attitude at all.

It's absolutely ok if we have some problem with someone and we don't like them at all and have opinions about them but always having the attitude of being judgemental and having the attitude to badmouth them is not something which will help us in sorting the matter.
We should directly go and interact with them if we share a bonding between ourselves.And if they don't give any importance to what we say then it is better to leave the matter and concentrate on our own lives.

Two people can never be same in every matter,if we don't appreciate or like someone's way of life its fine but it's not ok at all to make comments or remarks on them.It's their damn life,let them do whatever they want.If something is wrong we can just make them aware of that but whether they want to change it or not it's absolutely their matter of choice.Everything in life is momentous be it people(except some),circumstances etc.Why to make ourselves unhappy by making ourselves bothered about some person or thing?? Let's make sure that we do our job properly rather than being with those people or things from whom we get only negative vibes. 

We may not like the dressing sense,eating habits,waking style,talking style,behavior etc of someone but the thing is why we should take any interest in something or someone which or whom respectively we don't like at all.

Every human being have different stories of their journey as an individual in his/her life.
Everyone changes in both the positive and negative ways around with respect to the circumstances.

Often appearances are deceptive.Many a times what we see is completely different from the ground reality.

In this era where human beings are getting materialized day by day we can never expect people we have in our life to remain the way they are now for the whole life ahead.People do change rather it will be better to say that we people mend ourselves according to the situation.

Yeah,it's true that there will be people who love to lie for proving themselves superior, people who are dishonest,people who always have a negative attitude towards others,people who talk rubbish,people who are manipulators,people who always fight with others etc but isn't it way better to concentrate in our own lives rather commenting on others.We have got this precious life and i feel we should not waste it on not so important people.

Sometimes some people and things are so unfair that it is very natural and justified to have remarks on them but why to make remarks on someone or something when we have much better things to do mind our very own business.

Even many a times I also used to become judgemental and used to form opinions but I realized that it's just a waste of time thinking on people who don't matter to us and whom we don't like rather we should utilize that time thinking about something productive and good,something which helps to develop our persona.It's better to cut off with all those whom we don't like rather than being with them and forming various opinions about them.

 

 LET'S IMPROVE OURSELVES RATHER THAN HAVING OPINIONS ABOUT OTHERS.

 LET'S BUILD SUCH AN IMPROVISED DAILY ROUTINE OF OUR LIFE THAT WE DON'T HAVE ANY DAMN TIME FOR ANY OTHER REASON OTHER THAN FOR SOMETHING GOOD AND PRODUCTIVE.

LET'S DO SOMETHING FOR OUR MOTHERLAND.

LET'S CONCENTRATE ON BECOMING A SORTED OUT AND A POSITIVE PERSON IN OUR LIFE.

LET'S GIVE IMPORTANCE TO PEOPLE AND THINGS WHO INSPIRE AND MOTIVATE US.

LET'S DO SOMETHING WHICH MAKE US FEEL PROUD.

LET'S LIVE EVERY MOMENT OF OUR LIFE WITH POSITIVE ATTITUDE.

HAVING OPINIONS IS OK BUT HAVING OPINIONS WHICH MAKES US JUDGEMENTAL IS NOT SOMETHING WHICH IS IMPRESSIVE.

LET'S CONCENTRATE MORE ON OUR VERY OWN LIFE AND MAKE SURE THAT WE DON'T REMAIN WITH SOMEONE OR SOMETHING WHICH DRAWS OURSELVES TOWARDS NEGATIVITY.

 

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