A TAKE ON RELATIONSHIPS

A TAKE ON RELATIONSHIPS

Hello readers,hope you are are well.

Today,in this blog I am going to discuss my views on all the charming love stories that seems to be blooming around me. 
Well,from school days I have seen people of my age getting into romantic relationships,then break up and then the person who was their world used to become their biggest enemy ever.
I guess the reason for this was that people were getting into something when it was not a time for that.Well,I am not judging anyone but I do believe that everything needs a perfect time and perfect place to happen.
It's damn easy to get a girlfriend and a boyfriend but it's quite difficult to get a friend,or i can say a true friend in all sense.
Romantic relationships generally wants some space and time which needs maturity to get handled.I was never being into a such kind of relation but that does not mean that I don't understand the dynamics of that. 
Reel and real life are different and we need to accept that.
All the romantic portrayal that goes on and on,on the screen is not something which resembles our real life. 
Being a women I can say with confidence that these kind of so called love stories never flourish,because that set of mind and maturity comes with age and time. I have never seen a friend of mine having someone whom I can admire as a life partner.
I don't understand what is the need of this kind of illusions which blurs our vision.
Prince charming always arrives on the horse in story books and Mr.Right always sounds good on the screen.In real life these fantasies don't exist at all.
Short term relationships are a proof that people get along with people without thinking about the future consequences.
I in my entire life have not found anyone whom I can say that I can live my life with.
I don't understand what's the need that people get into romantic relations without even thinking for once and later they regret it like anything.
 I believe relationships demands people to have different experiences and moments together.Isn't that a wise decision to wait for a perfect time to have a rock solid relationship with someone with whom we can share our sorrows with.It's quite easy to get people who are there when we have everything and we are happy,but it's quite difficult to have people who supports us in our bad times.
Isn't that a wise decision to date people with whom we can live our entire life.
All the catchy captions don't make sense to me.I believe that captions do evolve as time passes,but moments don't.I mean people can be really sensible when they share their time with someone.
All those tactile couples appear damn funny to me.I mean for what PDA is required.Well,for people who don't know PDA stands for Public Display of Affection.
Intimacy is never proportional to being physical,it's all about feelings.
I can say it with confidence that when relationships get limited to being physical,it looses it's charm and perspective.
Sensibility and proper mindset helps to look for a person who can really make our lives beautiful.
Why don't we just be calm and wait for someone who can really define our life with it's charm.
After all life is all about how we live it the way we want.
Romantic relationships azure the sky when they are build with a strong foundation and where intimacy is synonymous to feelings and discovering each other.

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